Now that change has come, will you rise to the change? We’ve had major endings and new beginnings and there will be more dramatic and powerful change coming. We will be shown even more what will work and what won’t and the more we can accept, the easier time we will have. It’s not about avoiding change. It’s not about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s not about looking outside of ourselves for comfort or stability anymore. It’s about going deep inside and finding that stability within YOU. It’s about getting better at change, adapting and moving WITH IT.
We are pondering and questioning what is next and how we are going to get there. We are weighing things out. The trick is to not weigh things out for too long as the mind can talk you out of truth and into confusion and overwhelm. It can talk you out of where you really want to go. If you find yourself weighing things out for too long, you are likely only relying on your mind to make the decision.
So many of our decisions can be made much faster if we listened and trusted what was in our hearts and our inner guidance. Our hearts know the truth. Our hearts know the answers of what is truly the next best step.
The ways in which we go about things have to change to align with all the change around us. We can’t go about this new change with the same ways we have in the past. New ways of self-care means new ways of caring for others. New ways of communication means new connections and doorways opening. Letting go of what’s not working so that what will work can come in……the things we really want. Now is about moving away from complete lack of fulfillment to your becoming completely fulfilled in what you are doing and how you are living.
Relationships will continue to change and re-align. Some will go and new ones will come in. Trust that the ones who have gone or will go are no longer aligned and your task will be to let this be ok. Nothing lasts forever. Things work for a time and then it’s time to move on. Life is about movement. Make space for new ones to come in. It’s going to keep becoming clear. You are going to see what you really don’t want in your life and what you really truly do. Some relationships, projects and situations DO need to end because they are simply complete. They have fulfilled their purpose. Others will need to end because they are holding you back, keeping you stuck or are just downright toxic.
If you feel something is missing in your life or you feel there is something more but you don’t know what it is, you will need to surrender to the fact that change has to come in order for you to get there.
Fears are a natural part of what arises when change comes. It comes with the unknown. But it doesn’t always mean stop and that is the discernment you need to make. Are you are all in or not? There is no grey. This is the edge we are invited into this month.
Take yourself to the edge of your fears to go beyond them and step ALL IN to the change and expansion that is calling you forth. Connect to the part of yourself that is starving for the change that you want and go for it.
Breaking the rules that you have put on yourself that are limiting you rather than helping you will be good to first recognize and then break so that you expand the boundaries of your life in a positive and enlivening way.
You are only here in this body once. You are here to live what is inside of you now. Instead of going after what others want of you, go for what you want for you. You are here to live the life that is mapped on your Heart. No one can dictate that for you or even know what that is for you. Only YOU would know what is in your Heart. It’s why you are here. Other’s opinions is just that: their opinions. You have to step up and speak to and act on what you really want. Otherwise, it will be spoken and acted out for you and it won’t be what’s inside you. It will be the agenda of the outside world or someone else’s agenda.
You can’t avoid the fact that what you do will affect other people. But what you can do is understand that by you following what is in your Heart, you will come alive. You will connect to and know your passions and your joy and THAT is what others will get to experience through knowing you.
Knowing yourself is all the clarity you need. It is what makes all decisions in your life easier because you are basing them on who you truly are….not on what you think others want.
This month we have stepped into the beginning of a 13 month cycle to indulge in our true self. We are being called out of hiding who we truly are, hiding what we truly yearn for and going after it. Anything that has been suppressed will come out of hiding. You cannot deny your true nature anymore. It is coming out to be seen and lived…..and knowing your true self is the first step to landing on and living your divine purpose. This is the time to discover your true core, your true nature of self and your absolute authenticity. It is your buried treasure. And it is all inside of your Heart.